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7. Explain what you've learned. If you can show a critic that you've learned something, you prove that you've understood the criticism and tried to act on it. That, itself, usually mollifies critics.
解释你已经学到了什么。如果你能向一位批评者展示你学到了某样东西,那么你在证明自己已经理解了批评,并且试图采取行动。这本身就能让批评者安静下来。
8. Enjoy the fun of failure. Re-frame the issue entirely to embrace criticism. Fact is, trying new things and aiming high opens you to criticism. I tell myself to Enjoy the fun of failure to try to re-frame failure and criticism as part of the fun. Otherwise, my dread of criticism can paralyze me.
What am I overlooking? Have you found any other strategies that work for you?
享受失败的乐趣。 重新转化这个事情,拥抱批评。事实上,尝试新事物、眼光高都会让你更容易被批评。在《享受失败的乐趣》一文中我告诉自己重建失败、批评,将它们作为乐趣的一部分。不然的话,我对批评的恐惧将让我行为瘫痪。
我漏掉了什么没有?你有没有发现其它有用的方法?
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