关于性格内向者的6大误解

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　　Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk。
        　　误解1： 内向者不喜欢说话
        　　This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to
say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are
interested in, and they won’t shut up for days。
        　　并不是这样，内向者不说话只是因为他们觉得没什么好说，他们讨厌闲谈扯淡，如果你让一个内向者讲他感兴趣的事情，他可能连着几天几夜都讲不完。
        　　Myth #2 – Introverts are shy。
        　　误解2： 内向者都很害羞
        　　Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not
necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t
interact for the sake of interacting.
        　　内向者没什么好害羞的，他们也不是害怕陌生人，他们只是需要一个理由去交际，他们不会为了交际而交际。
        　　Myth #3– Introverts don’t like people。
        　　误解3： 内向者不合群
        　　On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They
can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an
introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life.
        　　恰好相反，内向者会非常认真的对待他们为数不多的朋友，他们最亲密的朋友或许用一只手就可以统计过来，但如果你有幸被一个性格内向者当做朋友，那你就有了一个终生的盟友。
        　　Myth #4 – Introverts always want to be alone。
        　　误解4：内向者总是想要独处
        　　Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a
lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But
they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their
discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON
at a time。
        　　内向者只是喜欢自我思考，他们会想很多，他们会白日做梦，他们喜欢解决问题，攻克难题，但是如果他们找不到什么人来分享他们的发现，他们也能忍受难以想象的孤独。他们希望在同一时间只和一个人保持亲密的感情关系。
        　　Myth #5 – Introverts are weird。
        　　误解5：内向者都很古怪
        　　Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d
prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They don’t make most
decisions based on what is popular or trendy。
        　　内向者通常都是个人主义者，他们不喜欢随大流，他们喜欢通过特立独行的生活方式来体现自己的价值，他们的大部分决定都不会以当前的流行趋势做为参考。
        　　Myth #6 – Introverts are aloof nerds。
        　　误解6：内向者都是冷漠的书呆子
        　　Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to
their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying
attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is
much more stimulating and rewarding to them。
        　　内向者通常更关注内心世界，他们将更多的精力放到自身的想法和感情上，但这并不代表他们对他们身边的事情漠不关心，只是他们更喜欢通过内心世界来达成自我满足。
        　　内向者如果为了去适应外向者支配的世界而对自己进行否定，结果将会是灾难性的，外向者需要认识和尊敬内向者，并且我们也需要学会尊敬自己。