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美文欣赏:去经历去体验 做最好最真实的自己(双语)









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发表于 2018-9-22 22:29:27 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
  Truly happy and successful people get that way by becoming the best, most
genuine version of themselves they can be. Not on the outside--on the inside.
It's not about a brand, a reputation, a persona. It's about reality. Who you
really are.
          Sounds simple, I know. It is a simple concept. The problem is, it's very
hard to do, it takes a lot of work, and it can take a lifetime to figure it
          Nothing worth doing in life is ever easy. If you want to do great work,
it's going to take a lot of hard work to do it. And you're going to have to
break out of your comfort zone and take some chances that will scare the crap
out of you.
          But you know, I can't think of a better way to spend your life. I mean,
what's life for if not finding yourself and trying to become the best, most
genuine version of you that you can be?
          That's what Steve Jobs meant when he said this at a Stanford University
commencement speech:
          Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't
let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice.
          You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You
have to trust in something--your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This
approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my
          The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found
it yet, keep looking. Don't settle.
          Now, let's for a moment be realistic about this. Insightful as that advice
may be, it sounds a little too amorphous and challenging to resonate with
today's quick-fix culture. These days, if you can't tell people exactly what to
do and how to do it, it falls on deaf ears.
          Not only that, but what Jobs was talking about, what I'm talking about,
requires focus and discipline, two things that are very hard to come by these
days. Why? Because, focus and discipline are hard. It's so much easier to give
in to distraction and instant gratification. Easy and addictive.
          To give you a little incentive to take on the challenge, to embark on the
road to self-discovery, here are three huge benefits from working to become the
best, most genuine version of yourself.
          It will make you happy. Getting to know yourself will make you feel more
comfortable in your own skin. It will reduce your stress and anxiety. It will
make you a better spouse, a better parent, a better friend. It will make you a
better person. Those are all pretty good reasons, if you ask me.
          Besides, you really won't achieve anything significant in life until you
know the real you. Not your brand, your LinkedIn profile, how you come across,
or what anyone thinks of you. The genuine you. There's one simple reason why you
shouldn't try to be something you're not, and it's that you can't. The real you
will come out anyway. So forget your personal brand and start spending time on
figuring out who you really are and trying to become the best version of that
you can be.
          You pay a huge price when you engage in mindless distraction. The only
people that really care about you are your loved ones, your friends and family.
Everyone else is too busy living his own little mini drama. To put it bluntly,
your network couldn't care less about you.
          That's why engaging yourself and others in mindless distraction isn't worth
your time or theirs. More important, it will absolutely keep you from focusing
on accomplishing whatever great things you might manage to achieve in life if
you set your mind to it.
          There's a business concept called opportunity cost. When you choose one
course of action, you miss out on all the other opportunities you might have
chosen to pursue but didn't. People rarely stop to consider that until it's too
          It's the most exciting journey you will ever embark on. We're all
enthralled by adventure. We love to read and watch movies about other people's
journeys, real or imagined. The Hobbit. Raiders of the Lost Ark. Into Thin
          We love to take vacations, to travel to all sorts of places. And when we
do, we revel in the natural beauty of Kauai's Na Pali Coast, the Grand Canyon,
the Alps. We marvel at the great works of others: the art, the architecture, the
Pyramids, Stonehenge.
          And yet, the opportunity for adventure is right there in front of each and
every one of us. Until you take it, you'll never know what you might achieve.
What marvels you might create. What you might discover. All you have to do is
start the journey.

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