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发表于 2017-10-10 22:37:24 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
  What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you?
          Truth be told, no one has the right to judge you. People may have heard
your stories, but they can’t feel what you are going through; they aren’t living
YOUR life. So forget what they say about you. Focus on how you feel about
yourself, and do what you know in your heart is right.
          1. Take care of yourself.
          Your relationship with yourself is the closest and most important
relationship you will ever have. If you don’t take good care of yourself, then
you can’t take good care of others either; which is why taking care of yourself
is the best selfish thing you can do.
          2. Do what you know is right, for YOU.
          Don’t be scared to walk alone, and don’t be scared to like it. Don’t let
anyone’s ignorance, drama, or negativity stop you from being the best you can
be. Keep doing what you know in your heart is right, for you. Because when you
are totally at peace within yourself, nothing can shake you.
          3. Follow your own unique path.
          Every new day is a chance to change your life. Work on making life all that
you want it to be. Work hard for what you believe, and keep your dreams big and
your worries small. You never need to carry more than you can hold; just take it
one day at a time. And while you’re out there making decisions instead of
excuses, learning new things, and getting closer and closer to your goals, you
should know that there are others out there, like me, who admire your efforts
and are striving for greatness too.
          4. Lock yourself away from the world and work on your goals.
          Dream big dreams, but realize that short term, realistic goals are the key
to success. Success is directly connected with daily action. The way we spend
our time defines who we are. Successful people keep moving, by doing small
things every day that bring them a couple steps closer to their dream. They make
mistakes along the way, but they don’t quit – they learn and press on.
          5. Adjust your goals and dreams as life changes.
          A great deal of pain in life comes from having a specific dream that you’ve
fallen in love with, and when it doesn’t work out exactly as planned, you become
angry that you now have to pursue a different path. If you want to tame your
inner demons and make the most of life, you must not become rigidly attached to
just one specific dream, and remain open to there being an even better, equally
as happy path ahead. Life is unpredictable, but it provides plenty of
opportunities to make dreams come true. Just don’t forget that sometimes taking
a positive step forward requires you to slightly adjust your dreams, or plan new
ones – it’s OK to change your mind or have more than one dream.
          6. Forgive those who have wronged you.
          Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. Forgiveness is an attribute of the
strong and wise. Forgiveness allows you to focus on the future without combating
the past. To understand the potential of everything going forward is to forgive
everything already behind you. Without forgiveness, wounds can never be healed,
and moving on can never be accomplished. What happened in the past is just one
chapter. Don’t close the book, just turn the page.
          7. Show everyone your love and kindness.
          If you are reserving your love only for those who you have decided are
worthy of it – all strangers excluded – it may come as a surprise to learn that
this is not love at all, it is called judgment. Judgment is selective, love is
all embracing. Just as the sunlight and the wind do not discriminate, true love
does not make any such distinctions either. Love and kindness is a way of
living. Where there is love, there is no judgment. Where there is judgment,
there is no love.
          8. Stand up for others, even if it’s the unpopular thing to do.
          Sometimes you will say something really small and simple, but it will fit
right into an empty space in someone’s heart. Dare to reach into the darkness,
to pull someone else into the light. Remember, strong people stand up for
themselves, but stronger people stand up for others too, and lend a hand when
they’re able.
          9. Fight through your failures.
          When you are feeling down or dealing with failure, don’t be ashamed.
There’s nothing to be ashamed of. You are going through a difficult time, and
you are still pushing forward. That’s something to be proud of – that you are
fighting through it and slowly rising above it. Let everyone know that today you
are a lot stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.
          10. Keep your head held high and keep on smiling.
          Every day of your life is a page of your history. The only time you run out
of chances is when you stop taking them. Don’t cry over the past, cry to get
over the past. Don’t smile to hide the pain, smile to heal the pain. Don’t think
of all the sadness in the world, think of all the beauty that still remains
around you.

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