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是否可以从外表评价一个人
Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? One should never
judge a person by external appearances. Use specific reasons and details to
support your answer.
[托福参考范文之一]
In most cases, one should never judge a person by external appearances.
Sometimes when I walk down the street at night, I avoid people who are acting
tough and loud, but in general, I prefer to reserve judgment until I get to know
someone. Judging someone by external appearance can be deceptive. Judgments
based on external appearances prevent you from getting to know a person,
reinforce stereotypes, and are superficial and limiting.
In high school I stayed away from students who were called the "bad
students" because they dressed a certain way. I wanted nothing to do with them.
I later had the chance to meet one of these "bad students" because his mother
was a friend of my mother. Since we had to be polite to each other because of
our mothers, we started talking and I realized that we had a lot in common. My
impression of him was very different once I got to know him.
If you form an opinion of someone based on stereotypes, you risk never
getting to know someone who is different. You may be missing out on an
opportunity to make a good friend. In addition, you are reinforcing that
stereotype by believing it without given the person a chance. If you take the
time to get to know the person, you might become friends.
Judging people by external appearance is superficial and often unfair.
After all, you don't know what circumstances the person might be facing or who
the person really is. Perhaps the person comes from a less fortunate family than
you and cannot afford the kind of stylish clothes your friends wear. However,
that does not mean the person is less intelligent or interesting than you
are.
People should not be nave about new people they meet, but should take time
to get to know them. External appearance often does not tell us anything about a
person. Judging someone by their appearance is misleading, reinforces
stereotypes, and is limiting. Doing so could prevent you from making a true
friend.
[托福参考范文之二]
What do you feel when a handsome gentleman or a beautiful lady passes by?
Then how about a fat short person wearing a dirty shirt? You feel differently?
Yes, most people do. It's very common for people to judge a person by external
appearance, because it's easy and direct, and it's instinctive. Appearance is a
very important aspect of a person and reflects one's personalities.
Sometimes you can tell the person's characteristics from his appearance.
However, in most cases, you can't tell exactly what the person is like just from
the external appearance, and ethically, we should not judge a person just by one
glance at his external appearance.
"Beauty and beast" and "Snow white and seven dwarves" are two stories that
are almost known by everyone. Although there are fables, there are deep meanings
inside them. What you can learn from them is that people that are not so
good-looking can be very good people internally. And actually there are tons of
examples in reality. Napoleon is a very short guy, but he was one of the most
famous people in the history. Theodore Roosevelt, former US president during
World War II, is handicapped; but he is one of the most successful presidents in
American history. So how can you tell about the people from their external
appearance?
Moreover, there are other undeniable facts which show that a beautiful
person may be rotten inside. There are many prostitutes on the busy streets.
It's obviously that they are very beautiful, but are they really righteous
people? A beautiful appearance is a good thing, but a righteous heart is more
valuable. Finally, as we can see, it's out of question that we should not judge
people just from their external appearance. The most important standard is their
internal personality.
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发表于 2016-7-10 15:24:48