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Essay by 谢振礼老师 Jeenn Lee Hsieh
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真题还原
In some countries children become richer, safer and healthier, but they are
not happy. Why? What is the solution? Give reasons for your answer and include
any relevant examples from your knowledge or experience.
范文:
Children will be happy when their family environment is not confusing, and
you may as well be sure that their happiness does not simply rely on being
richer, safer and healthier. In some countries, children being spoiled one way
or another do not appear to be as happy as they are thought to be, due mainly to
their parents' wrong attitudes concerning respect and discipline. It is possible
that you could make your child happier if you could remember to act like an
adult and not a child, and also as a boss and not as a friend that you intend to
be.
Naturally, father and mother are responsible for making a child as happy as
possible by being a parent in the traditional sense of the word Too often you
are inclined to pretend to be like a child to get your child to like you, which
is no less than confusing to an immature mind. Chances are that you might be
viewed as a child rather than a parent, not knowing that a child actually needs
an adult Dad and Mom in the normal environment. By and by, your child will not
respect you, and the lack of respect does not generate happiness because your
child needs you to be a parent, not a child. At this point, a happy child is one
who takes the advantage of normal parenting, far from playing a childish role.
That means that while you must listen to your children and not to ignore them,
you should never forget playing the role of a a kissing parent and a scolding
parent on different occasions.
Likewise, a child is not happy if discipline is missing at home. You ought
to act like a boss and tell your children when they do wrong and correct them,
and even punish them if necessary, because this could help make a child happier
at heart. It may be said that a happy child is one who is taught to distinguish
what is the right thing to do and what is not. In other words, young children in
particular need parents to have authority to run the family government properly,
otherwise the situation might turn out to be confusing sometimes. These days,
there are cases in which children seem to be in charge, as this can be seen in
the way parents obey their children. Also, it is not uncommon nowadays that the
parent-child relationship is apparently based on peer friendship rather than
family discipline, thus allowing a child to feel like an "unhappy"
commander-in-chief in the family.
As an adult and boss, both parents are supposed to understand that their
children could be even happier if they are asked to follow the rules regarding
respect and discipline. Of course, money, safety and health are always important
to childhood happiness; nevertheless, a child should be treated strictly as a
child without causing any confusion. For that matter, you cannot expect a very
confused child to be very happy, can you? |
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发表于 2016-7-10 15:23:11