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Carl RogersWhat I am is good enough if I would only be it openly.
The following was written in answer to a 15-year-old girl's question, "How
can I prepare myself for a fulfilling life?"
I am me.
In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. There are people
who have some parts like me but no one adds up exactly like me. Therefore,
everything that comes out of me is authentically mine because I alone choose
it.
I own everything about me — my body, including everything it does; my mind,
including all my thoughts and ideas; my eyes, including the images of all they
behold; my feelings, whatever they might be — anger, joy, frustration, love,
disappointment, excitement; my mouth and all the words that come out of it —
polite, sweet and rough, correct or incorrect; my voice, loud and soft; all my
actions, whether they be to others or myself.
I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears.
I own all my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes.
Noteadd up：合计 come out of：由产生 authentically：真正地 frustration：挫折
fantasy：幻想 triumph：胜利，成功
Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so
dong, I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts. I can then make it
possible for all of me to work in my best interests.
I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects
that I do not know. But as long as I am friendly and loving for the solutions to
the puzzles and for ways to find out more about me.
However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and
feel at a given moment in time is me. This is authentic and represents where I
am at that moment in time.
When I review later how I looked and sounded, what I said and did, and how
I thought and felt, some parts may turn out to be unfitting. I can discard that
which is unfitting and keep that which proved fitting, and invent something new
for that which I discarded.
I can see, hear, feel, think, say and do. I have the tools to survive, to
be close to others, to be productive, to make sense and order out of the world
of people and things outside of me.
I own me and therefore I can engineer me.
I am me and I am okay.
Note intimately：密切地 acquainted：有知识的 authentic：可信的
unfitting：不适当的 discard：丢弃，放弃
Virginia Satir
Questions:
1.What's the meaning of "What I am is good enough if I would only be it
openly." ?
2.Who is "I"? |
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发表于 2016-7-10 11:27:50