11. You're a good judge of character.
你善于评判性格。
You've always been able to get a sense for who someone is pretty much right
off the bat -- and your intuitions are rarely wrong.
你总能敏锐洞察出某人的性格,而且你的直觉很少出错。
12. You trust your gut.
你相信自己的直觉。
An emotionally intelligent person is someone who feels comfortable
following their intuition. If you're able to trust in yourself and your
emotions, there's no reason not to listen to that quiet voice inside (or that
feeling in your stomach) telling you which way to go.
情商高的人乐于听从直觉。如果你相信自己的感受,那就该听从内心的声音(或心里感受)告诉你该怎么办。
13. You've always been self-motivated.
你常常自我激励。
Were you always ambitious and hard-working as a kid, even when you weren't
rewarded for it? If you're a motivated self-starter -- and you can focus your
attention and energy towards the pursuit of your goals -- you likely have a high
EQ.
小时候,就算得不到奖励,你也会雄心勃勃地努力吗?如果你能自我激励,并能全心全意追逐目标,那么你很可能拥有高情商。
14. You know when to say "no."
你知道何时该拒绝。
Self-regulation, one of the five components of emotional intelligence,
means being able to discipline yourself and avoid unhealthy habits. Emotionally
intelligent people are generally well equipped to tolerate stress (a bad-habit
trigger for many of us) and to control their impulses.
“自我调节”是情商的五要素之一,表示有能力自我约束并避开不良习惯。压力是很多恶习的致因,而高情商的人一般都能适应压力并控制好自己的冲动。