【晨读美文四级篇】怎么样与父母相处（3/4）

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每段前所有序列号请写阿拉伯数字加空格。7 When you have presented your case, take another deep breath and let your parents talk. Really listen to what your parents have to say. Even if you do not like what they are saying, hold back your anger and keep your ears and mind open.
8 Avoid shutting down or growing frustrated. Avoid interrupting them or jumping in with a  rebuttal. Just listen and absorb what they say.
9 If your parents refuse your proposal, stay focused, and avoid getting emotional. Thank them for their time and express your disappointment that you could not reach a compromise.
10 If your parents accept your proposal, be grateful and assure them that you will not let them down. Then do everything necessary to show them they made the right decision in agreeing with you.７． 当你陈述完毕，再深吸一口气，然后让你父母说话。倾听他们要说的话。即使你不喜欢他们说的那些话，也要心平气和，敞开你的胸怀认真听。
８． 避免感到压抑或沮丧。不要打断他们，不要插话进行反驳。要认真听取并理解他们所说的话。
９． 如果父母反对你的提议，注意力集中，情绪不要激动。感谢他们能抽出时间来商议，同时也对你们之间不能达成妥协表示失望。
１０． 如果父母接受了你的提议，应表示感谢，并保证你不会让他们失望。然后你要做出必要的行动，以向他们表明你支持他们所做出的正确决定。