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John
Joe
What about John and Joe? Did you discipline them?
Not really. You know, they're just kids. They don't really know better.
Well, I hate to disagree with you, but I really think you have to teach them what they can and can't do. If you don't, you'll have a lot more of the same embarrassing incidences.
I'm kind of afraid that they won't be able to handle a strict approach. They're so small.
If my children are anything to go by, I'm certain that they can learn even from a small age. I remember when my kids were young, I used to go bonkers too. Then, another mom told me I should set the limits. You know, like tell them what is okay and what is not okay. Then, I had to be ready to enforce the boundaries. And, if the kids went over the boundary, I had to be consistent in disciplining them.
What exactly do you mean by disciplining them?
Well, it depended on their age. When they were young, I would just restrain them for a while.那约翰和乔呢？你有没有惩罚他们？
没有。你知道，他们只是孩子，他们并不知道怎样做才对。
嗯，我不想否认你，但我还是认为你得教他们是与非。如果你总是放纵他们，你恐怕还得面对更多这种尴尬场面。
我有点担心他们不能接受太严格的手段。他们太小了。
按照我的经验，孩子们应该从小就从错误中吸取教训。我记得我孩子很小的时候，我也非常宠溺他们。后来有一位母亲告诉我应该对他们施与管教。你懂的，比如告诉他们这样做可以，那样做不妥之类的。然后，我开始规范他们的行为，如果他们有越矩之行，我就惩罚他们。
那你说的“惩罚”到底是什么?
嗯，这取决于他们的年龄。我孩子小的时候，我只是管束他们一会儿。
——译文来自: XposedShell | 
发表于 2016-8-2 13:17:12