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对于独生之女来说，没有什么比兄弟或者姐妹更有吸引力的了，来听听姐妹之间的话吧。
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本篇对话中，主持人的对话不需要听写，只需听写嘉宾的话
主持人对话①"And competition would follow right on that."
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戳节目订阅，掌握节目最新动态。"The most striking thing was almost everybody started by telling me they're different. And it might be 'We've always been close even though we're very different.' Or it might be 'We were never very close. We're very different.' And that made me wonder, why is being different the starting point? And so the pattern was that people seem to think of their lives in comparison to their sister's life.
"A woman told me she graduated number ten in a graduating class, high school class, of two hundred, but she still thought she was not smart because her sister had graduated number one. So in many cases it's not always, are we tall or short are we taller or shorter than our sisters? So that was one pattern that emerged quickly."
"One of the reasons that sisters fascinated me, everything that we do and every conversation we have, we're balancing two dynamics: how close or distant do we want to be and the competition. Who has more power?
"We often think, and I have written myself, that women tend to focus more on the connection level. But sisters are always competitive as well. So they're very connected and the competition and the hierarchy is always there because of the order by age. So that was fascinating. “ | 
发表于 2016-8-2 13:00:30