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对于青春期的孩子们,他们有尖锐而敏感,我们该如何和这些小刺猬们交谈呢?词汇大师来给你些意见。今天的关键词:“青春期” 。
TIPS
只需要听写嘉宾的话,主持人的话不需要听写。不需要听写的句子如下:
主持人的话① "So what's the best approach?"
主持人的话②"So how do you start a conversation?"
主持人的话③"Yeah, you can't listen till they actually are saying something! [laughter]"
HINTS
creeps
psychobabble
therap-ese
automobile-dominated
PS:"well","so","you know"都是需要听写的哦~不要忘记咯!
I have to say I share your creeps there, because it's a little too politically correct or psychobabble therap-ese. I think that parents need to be honest with themselves first about recognizing that often they want to control and badger and nag and preach at and scold and sort of beat the kid into line. And in order to have a respectful conversation you have to lay that aside.
I think the best approach is to be a good listener.
Well, first maybe you have to have a physical setup in which there are expectations on both sides that they are going to be communicating with one another. Car rides are good places for this in our automobile-dominated society, oftentimes the one place that people really have a chance for an intimate exchange. |