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情人节了,如果你不能跟你的情人在一起,你会怎么联系TA?电话?E-mail?还是手写板情书?Dear……
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本篇对话中,主持人的对话不需要听写,只需听写嘉宾的话
主持人对话①"Tell us about some of the things that you learned from these interviews."
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intimacy hierarchy
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"You know, if you're just starting a relationship with someone or just starting a correspondence with someone, it's certainly fine to say 'hi' or 'hello,' but then I would say within your second e-mail you don't really need a formal salutation. You can cut right to the fact that you are having an official conversation."
"One of the more interesting things I found out is that a lot of people perceive this sense of hierarchy, this 'intimacy hierarchy,' which basically means if, say, someone sends you a text message, it's only polite to match their medium in response.
"So they might start out by using e-mail and then progress to using text message and then progress to leaving a voice mail, but perhaps not actually talking on the phone. And the ultimate, ultimate 'ding-ding-ding-ding-you-finally-made-it,' is actually to have this vocal correspondence, whereas even five years ago we would just pick up the phone and call, and hopefully it would happen before three dates." |