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Many people wonder what the secret to long-lasting love is. Whilst mutual trust, loyalty and a shared love of Game Of Thrones might spring to mind, scientists believe they've determined the formula to figuring out whether you're well-suited to your partner - and it's all down to how you behave together. A study published in the Journal of Family and Marriage has identified four types of relationship and revealed which type is most likely to get married.许多人都好奇爱情常青的秘密。（一提到这个）我们心里最先想到的就是相互信任、忠诚和《权力的游戏》中的那种同心同德。科学家们相信他们已经确定了一种公式，这种公式能够搞清楚你和伴侣是否彼此合适——这完全取决于你们在一起时的行为。一项发表在《家庭与婚姻》杂志上的研究声称其确定了四种爱情类型，并公布了最可能结婚的爱情类型。
Do you and your partner have a rollercoaster relationship? You fit into the first group, which is dubbed 'dramatic''?你和伴侣有着“过山车”式的感情吗？那么你就属于第一类情侣了。这种类型的情侣被戏称为“戏剧性情侣”。
The 'dramatic' section of participants weren't exactly consistent in their affections, often justifying the bad elements of their relationship by claiming that they 'weren't good together'; they are the most likely to break up.“戏剧性情侣”对待感情并不始终如一，他们经常用“我们在一起并不幸福”来解释感情中的负面因素；这类情侣最有可能分手。
Scientists also identified a second group called the conflict-ridden couples who tend to argue a lot. Unlike the dramatic couples, though, this second group weren't as likely to break up and didn't have a tainted future.科学家还定义了第二种情侣，即“吵架倾向型”情侣，这类情侣经常吵架。和“戏剧性情侣”不同，第二种情侣不大容易分手，未来也不太糟糕。
The third group - the socially involved - place high emphasis on social approval. So, these couples attribute social reasons - such as 'my parents and friends like them' - for the positive points in their relationship. This type of couple have a bright future thanks to the importance they place on common social networks, as well as having a solid foundation of friendship and cite their partner as their 'best friend' as well as their lover.第三种情侣——“社交参与型情侣”——很重视社会认同。所以这些情侣会把社会原因当做感情中的积极因素，比如“我父母和朋友都喜欢他们”。由于此类情侣重视共同的社交网络、有着坚固的友情基础，并且把对方当做最好的“朋友”和“情人”，所以他们的未来十分明朗。
The final - and most successful - group is hailed the partner-focussed commitments.They have plenty of positive turning points in their relationship and credit their success to having plenty in common, as well as spending a lot of time together focussing on each other's needs. Perhaps unsurprisingly, this group were the least likely to break up - and it's all thanks to them being conscientiousness, indicating that they're people who make long-term relationship goals.最后一种——也是最成功的一种——“专注伴侣承诺型”情侣。他们的感情中有许多正面能量，他们把各自的成功归功于彼此的共同点；同时他们也会花费很多时间用于关注对方的需求。毫无意外，此类情侣最不可能分手——这都归功于他们的责任心。当然，这也意味着他们视彼此为长期伴侣目标。
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发表于 2016-7-28 22:16:42