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For anyone interested in understanding people or improving their relationships, reading faces can help a great deal. This video gives you tips on detecting lies through face reading.
对于有兴趣了解别人或者改善人际关系的人来说，读懂面部表情可以起到很大的帮助。这段视频教给你怎样通过面部表情鉴别谎言。
In this video, I'm going to tell you how to read faces. As a general rule, if someone is right handed and they are telling you a lie, they are going to look to their left hand side or they are going to look upwards and to the left. Obviously, if they are left handed, the opposite is true.
在这段视频中，我将要告诉你怎样读懂别人的面部表情。作为一个普遍的原则，如果某人习惯用右手，他们说谎的时候通常会看向左手边，或者先向上看再看向左手边。很明显，如果是左撇子，则看向右边。
Another way to read whether somebody is telling you the truth or not, is to study their expression. So, for example, if someone is telling you a statement but their facial expression doesn't match that statement, you can be pretty sure they are not telling you the truth. So, for example, if I was to say that I love salad, while asked favourite, it's unlikely that I'm telling you the truth.
鉴别某人是否说谎的另外一个方法就是研究他们的表情。例如，如果某人告诉你一件事，但是他们的表情与陈述不符合，你就可以肯定他们说谎。例如，如果你问我我最喜欢吃什么的时候，我用这样的表情说，我喜欢沙拉，你可以判断这不可能是真的。
They may also avoid eye contact with you. So, this is really important to really give people eye contact yourself but also to notice where people's eyes are when they are talking to you. If someone has a delayed facial expression, for example, if they tell you they love you but they don't smile to the end of that statement, it's unlikely that it's true again.
说谎的人也不可能跟你对视。所以，经常和别人进行眼神交流非常重要，但是也要注意你和别人说话的时候他们的眼睛看向哪里。如果某人的面部表情延迟，例如，如果他们告诉你他们爱你，但是在说完这句话的时候并没有笑，这也不可能是真的。
Now, obviously, none of these statements are 100% correct and it's important that you study the face of the person you are trying to read before you make any assumptions. So, for example, you could ask them a question you know the answer to. When they give it to you, the honest answer, watch which way their eyes go.
很明显，以上这些陈述都不是100%正确，你在做出任何假设之前都应该研究这个人的面部表情。例如，你可以问他们一个你已经知道答案的问题。如果他们给的是诚实的答案，看一下他们的眼睛看向哪里。
That would give you an indication as to which way their eyes go when they are telling you the truth. You can then start to read what they are telling you and whether it's truthful or not. It's not just about what a person's face is doing but also about anything that's leading towards the face.
这会先让你了解说真话的时候他们的眼睛看向哪里。然后再开始问其他问题，通过观察眼神的方向来判断他们是否说谎。这不仅与面部表情有关，还和导致这种表情的心理活动有关。
So, whether they have a twitch or maybe they tend to rub their nose or touch their chin when they are talking, it's likely that maybe there is nervousness there and maybe they are struggling to tell the truth. And that's how to read faces.
所以，当他们说话的时候，无论是用力抽鼻子，还是用手摸鼻子或下巴，这都有可能表明他们很紧张，他们或许在做思想斗争，是否告诉你真相。以上就是读懂别人面部表情的方法。
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发表于 2016-7-12 22:02:51