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完全放空十分钟是多久以前的事了?
不传短信、不说话也不思考?
专注专家Andy Puddicombe 描述放空的不可思议的力量：每天花十分钟清空脑袋，单纯的感觉和感受当下。
TED演讲英文文稿:
TED演讲中文文稿:
00:11
We live in an incredibly busy world. The pace of life is often frantic, our
minds are always busy, andwe're always doing something.
00:19
So with that in mind, I'd like you just to take a moment to think, when did
you last take any timeto do nothing? Just 10 minutes, undisturbed? And when I
say nothing, I do mean nothing. Sothat's no emailing, texting, no Internet, no
TV, no chatting, no eating, no reading. Not evensitting there reminiscing about
the past or planning for the future. Simply doing nothing. I see alot of very
blank faces.
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00:49
(Laughter)
00:50
You probably have to go a long way back.
00:51
And this is an extraordinary thing, right? We're talking about our mind.
The mind, our mostvaluable and precious resource, through which we experience
every single moment of our life. Themind that we rely upon to be happy, content,
emotionally stable as individuals, and at the sametime, to be kind and
thoughtful and considerate in our relationships with others. This is the
samemind that we depend upon to be focused, creative, spontaneous, and to
perform at our very bestin everything that we do. And yet, we don't take any
time out to look after it. In fact, we spendmore time looking after our cars,
our clothes and our hair than we -- okay, maybe not our hair,
01:36
(Laughter)
01:37
but you see where I'm going.
01:39
The result, of course, is that we get stressed. You know, the mind whizzes
away like a washingmachine going round and round, lots of difficult, confusing
emotions, and we don't really knowhow to deal with that. And the sad fact is
that we are so distracted that we're no longer present inthe world in which we
live. We miss out on the things that are most important to us, and thecrazy
thing is that everybody just assumes, that's the way life is, so we've just kind
of got to geton with it. That's really not how it has to be.
02:12
So I was about 11 when I went along to my first meditation class. And trust
me, it had all thestereotypes that you can imagine, the sitting cross-legged on
the floor, the incense, the herbaltea, the vegetarians, the whole deal, but my
mom was going and I was intrigued, so I went alongwith her. I'd also seen a few
kung fu movies, and secretly I kind of thought I might be able tolearn how to
fly, but I was very young at the time. Now as I was there, I guess, like a lot
ofpeople, I assumed that it was just an aspirin for the mind. You get stressed,
you do somemeditation. I hadn't really thought that it could be sort of
preventative in nature, until I was about20, when a number of things happened in
my life in quite quick succession, really serious thingswhich just flipped my
life upside down and all of a sudden I was inundated with thoughts,inundated
with difficult emotions that I didn't know how to cope with. Every time I sort
of pushedone down, another one would pop back up again. It was a really very
stressful time.
03:12
I guess we all deal with stress in different ways. Some people will bury
themselves in work, gratefulfor the distraction. Others will turn to their
friends, their family, looking for support. Some peoplehit the bottle, start
taking medication. My own way of dealing with it was to become a monk. So Iquit
my degree, I headed off to the Himalayas, I became a monk, and I started
studyingmeditation.
03:39
People often ask me what I learned from that time. Well, obviously it
changed things. Let's face it,becoming a celibate monk is going to change a
number of things. But it was more than that. Ittaught me -- it gave me a greater
appreciation, an understanding for the present moment. By thatI mean not being
lost in thought, not being distracted, not being overwhelmed by
difficultemotions, but instead learning how to be in the here and now, how to be
mindful, how to bepresent.
04:15
I think the present moment is so underrated. It sounds so ordinary, and yet
we spend so littletime in the present moment that it's anything but ordinary.
There was a research paper that cameout of Harvard, just recently, that said on
average, our minds are lost in thought almost 47percent of the time. 47 percent.
At the same time, this sort of constant mind-wandering is also adirect cause of
unhappiness. Now we're not here for that long anyway, but to spend almost half
ofour life lost in thought and potentially quite unhappy, I don't know, it just
kind of seems tragic,actually, especially when there's something we can do about
it, when there's a positive, practical,achievable, scientifically proven
technique which allows our mind to be more healthy, to be moremindful and less
distracted.
05:13
And the beauty of it is that even though it need only take about 10 minutes
a day, it impacts ourentire life. But we need to know how to do it. We need an
exercise. We need a framework to learnhow to be more mindful. That's essentially
what meditation is. It's familiarizing ourselves with thepresent moment. But we
also need to know how to approach it in the right way to get the bestfrom it.
And that's what these are for, in case you've been wondering, because most
peopleassume that meditation is all about stopping thoughts, getting rid of
emotions, somehowcontrolling the mind, but actually it's quite different from
that. It's more about stepping back, sortof seeing the thought clearly,
witnessing it coming and going, emotions coming and goingwithout judgment, but
with a relaxed, focused mind.
06:04
So for example, right now, if I focus too much on the balls, then there's
no way I can relax andtalk to you at the same time. Equally, if I relax too much
talking to you, there's no way I can focuson the balls. I'm going to drop them.
Now in life, and in meditation, there'll be times when thefocus becomes a little
bit too intense, and life starts to feel a bit like this. It's a very
uncomfortableway to live life, when you get this tight and stressed. At other
times, we might take our foot offthe gas a little bit too much, and things just
become a sort of little bit like this. Of course inmeditation --
06:39
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06:40
we're going to end up falling asleep. So we're looking for a balance, a
focused relaxation where wecan allow thoughts to come and go without all the
usual involvement.
06:50
Now, what usually happens when we're learning to be mindful is that we get
distracted by athought. Let's say this is an anxious thought. Everything's going
fine, and we see the anxiousthought. "Oh, I didn't realize I was worried about
that." You go back to it, repeat it. "Oh, I amworried. I really am worried. Wow,
there's so much anxiety." And before we know it, right, we'reanxious about
feeling anxious.
07:14
(Laughter)
07:15
You know, this is crazy. We do this all the time, even on an everyday
level. If you think about thelast time you had a wobbly tooth. You know it's
wobbly, and you know that it hurts. But what doyou do every 20, 30 seconds?
07:31
(Mumbling)
07:33
It does hurt. And we reinforce the storyline, right? And we just keep
telling ourselves, and we do itall the time. And it's only in learning to watch
the mind in this way that we can start to let go ofthose storylines and patterns
of mind. But when you sit down and you watch the mind in thisway, you might see
many different patterns. You might find a mind that's really restless and --
thewhole time. Don't be surprised if you feel a bit agitated in your body when
you sit down to donothing and your mind feels like that. You might find a mind
that's very dull and boring, and it'sjust, almost mechanical, it just seems it's
as if you're getting up, going to work, eat, sleep, get up,work. Or it might
just be that one little nagging thought that just goes round and round
yourmind.
08:21
Well, whatever it is, meditation offers the opportunity, the potential to
step back and to get adifferent perspective, to see that things aren't always as
they appear. We can't change every littlething that happens to us in life, but
we can change the way that we experience it. That's thepotential of meditation,
of mindfulness. You don't have to burn any incense, and you definitelydon't have
to sit on the floor. All you need to do is to take 10 minutes out a day to step
back, tofamiliarize yourself with the present moment so that you get to
experience a greater sense offocus, calm and clarity in your life.
09:08
Thank you very much.
09:09
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发表于 2016-7-12 21:29:55