耶鲁教授为你解密完美爱情三要素
"http://www.tudou.com/v/YEQlAonIjC8/&rpid=88656701/v.swf怎么样，听懂了吗？？
没错，心理学家Rober Sternberg认为，完美爱情的三要素是intimacy，passion，commitment/decision，也就是“亲密感”，“激情”和“承诺”。
还记得他是怎么定义这三个要素的吗？？马上帮大家温习下:
Intimacy: the feeling of closeness, of connectedness with someone, of bonding; youshare secrets, and information you don't share with anybody else
Passion: the drive that leeds to romance, physical attraction or sex
Commitment: the decision that one is in a love relationship, the willingness to label it as such and a commitment to maintain that relationship at least for some period of time
视频里这位幽默风趣的教授说，这个爱情三要素理论最有趣的地方在于提供了很多探究的可能性，比如如果某种感情只具备三个要素中的一个、或者两个，那么该如何定义呢？
排列组合神马的，数起来是不是有点晕？？没关系，小编我已经帮大家梳理好啦，请看（表格里的“√”表示有这个因素，“X”表示没有这个因素）：
Intimacy
√
X
X
Passion
X
√
X
Commitment
X
X
√
Kind of Emotion
Liking
Infatuated Love
Empty Love
e.g.
typical friendship
love at
first sight
first stage in arranged marriage
Intimacy
X
√
√
Passion
√
X
√
Commitment
√
√
X
Kind of Emotion
Fatuous Love
Companionate Love
Romantic Love
e.g.
Hollywood romance
best friend
first stage of relationship
淡定不能的童鞋们，快来测测你和TA的爱有多完美吧~~
当然如果你们的感情同时具备了这三个要素，那么恭喜啦，你们拥有最完美的爱，~O(∩_∩)O~
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