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发表于 2018-3-20 00:21:40
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Psychologists call this sympathy, which is known as compassion, and
associate it with morality and ethics, and if we can find the true meaning of
compassion, we are more likely to be kind to others. Here we are told how to act
- how do not let strangers be confused - because we can understand their
feelings, their hearts.
But it is a very easy thing to show sympathy? Not always. This is why there
is no one group, no religious beliefs are in line with their own external
treatment ideal one of the reasons. Exclusion and oppression has always been the
prevalence of many human society When we feel lost, threatened or frightened, it
is difficult for us to think about transposition. In fact, stress and
uncertainty may lead us to blame others - looking for a scapegoat instead of
sympathizing with them.
Today, not onlyimmigrants and refugees are 'alone in a foreign land for the
stranger', in the United States and around the world, we have become unfamiliar
with each other.We find it difficult to understand each other's point of view,
it is difficult to deal with differences.We can not imagine our country Of
people think, how to do.Although constantly communicate, we also found and the
other increasingly drift away, it is difficult to reconcile.
Over the past three decades, according to a recent article by Forbes, it
has been reported that the number of Americans who have not had a friend has
tripled. How is this possible? It's a time for people to knock on a keyboard in
social media And hundreds of people chatting friends of the times ah!However,
more and more people's lives are around the Internet, the more social the more
lonely.To know, send text messages, send e-mail, hair push special down the
phone and a living person to deal with more simple!
In the twentieth century, the French sociologist Emile Durheim (Emile
Durkheim talked about this 'anomie' phenomenon - a kind of And the social
derailment of the loneliness, he believes that his great changes in life - the
rise of industry, large-scale production and urban growth - is the link between
the culprits less.
A century later, but before people began to worry about the network, social
media has begun to shape our way of communication, political scientist Robert
Putnam (Robert Putnam with 'bowling' image describes the collapse of
contemporary social network of traditional society Putnam found that we no
longer joined our community activities, and we no longer define ourselves
through clubs and civic organizations that represent our hobbies and
interests.
What happens if we are weakened in social relations? How can we feel safe
when we are no longer in the social network or community? One possible result is
that we take the stone and hit our feet.We may spend a lot of time staring at
The mirror is only concerned with the information that is consistent with our
previous beliefs, and we will only focus on what we do about ourselves and we
become isolated and helpless.
'We all know the taste of loneliness, and we already know that the only
solution is love, and that love comes from the sense of belonging of social
groups,' wrote Dorothy, a social activist of the twentieth century.
There is no community, no compassion, I can not see myself from the eyes of
others.On the contrary, those strangers are ignored, and even demonized. And
Hinduism, Islam, Christianity, Judaism and many other traditions are contrary to
us No longer welcome strangers to our table.On the contrary, we build the walls
and keep them away from us.
Perhaps in a beautiful sunny afternoon in the past four years, you walk to
the Grove Street Cemetery and discover the tombstone of the 17th president of
Yale, Kim Brewster, who led the university in a period of historical turmoil ,
He advocated coeducational and tried to maintain peace during the Panthers
experiment in New Haven City (United States of America Connecticut port
city).
Brewster's epitaph wrote: 'The presumption of innocence is not only a legal
concept of law and common sense, it needs a generous spirit of strangers,
expecting what is the best, not the worst.' Brewster is familiar with the
conflict And the strife, he knows how deep the differences between people can
be, and he knows how misunderstandings and fears can be separated from people,
but he expects to be the best among the others, which is his common sense.
Kyrgyzstan and the social commentator Ta-Nehisi Coates have called for
'deep sympathy from the heart.' This deep compassion should inspire us and
inspire us, and this is a powerful tool. We take action to serve others and our
social groups.
In 2017, you have been on campus for four years, trying to become popular
and accepted people, you and a variety of background and industry people to
establish a lasting friendship, when you meet each other when they are
unfamiliar, but you hand in hand Created the Yale family, you sang:
Four seasons change, Yun Shu Yun roll
Snow-capped, spring-filled
Time passes, marshes
Yale friendship, daughter does not change
I urge you to bring these experiences into the world - the world needs your
contribution, your curiosity, and your compassion .
I hope you will experience the pain of the world, empathy and the world as
their responsibility. Hospitality, and people are good, to see people, you do is
the angel thing.
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