短篇美文赏析-How to Maintain Your Love Relationship

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　　In order to experience everlasting love in life, you ought to first figure
out what is missing in your life and then fill in the gaps. People fall in and
out of love because they expect their lovers to be everything to them and do
everything for them. They then become dissatisfied when the partner fails to
meet all their requirements. If you have a dream of achieving everlasting love
you better create your very own life crowned by hobbies, interests and
beneficial passions. This makes you a full lover when you enjoy a complete,
interesting life on your own. Create a world of your own. On your to-do-list add
forgiveness. It is always healthy to forgive while you can, disappointments and
sadness is a part of life.
        　　Some people find it hard to forgive their partners especially if they
happened to catch them cheating on them. Seek professional help from a marriage
and relationship counselor. This is an important move towards search for
everlasting love. Most buried resentments are the cause to failed marriages and
broken relationships. At one time they resurface and blow the present things out
of proportion. To find a smooth sail in your love life you have to learn to
forgive and move on with a clean slate. Accept changes when they arrive instead
of fighting the reality. In life change is inevitable. At one time you will be
loved, dumped, married, you will have children, become sick and die. You should
acknowledge the happenings in life and move through them strongly. No matter how
settled you might be it is good to know that things can change in an
instant.
        　　Always accept the unexpected. Always find Happiness in what you have and be
grateful to own what you have. It is a great secret to everlasting love. Despite
the greatest fear and uncertainties of the unknown, when the inevitable things
happen you will look back on the good old times and wish that you had been more
grateful when things were more colorful. To enjoy your love life you should give
thanks every moment and learn to appreciate the small problems we experience
because unknown to us they can get worse and some time they probably will. To
experience how it feels to have everlasting love, create time for each other as
lovers. Many people who are unhappy keep on postponing time to be together.
People get caught up in the many and demanding daily activities and forget to
get time to live for today.
        　　It happens to me and you. There will always be more laundry, more house
chores and more errands to be carried out. It is a routine where we retire to
bed when we are very exhausted late at night only to awake and follow the same
routine again the next day. To live life to the fullest stop at some point and
take time for yourself and for each other too. Today might be the only gift you
have in life so live like there is no tomorrow. The precious moments we reckon
in life are achieved by creating time for them against the much pressure of
work. Create such short and fleeting moments everyday to enjoy everlasting
love.