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【TED演讲】20岁,不可挥霍的光阴(6/6)

如今大学毕业生就业连年成为社会焦点,剩男剩女问题也非常突出的今天,这10年的时光到底应该如何度过?我们如何交友?如何就业?如何恋爱结婚?…… 今天的演讲者Meg Jay,一位毕业于加州伯克利的心理咨询师,用她多年的心理咨询经验,向每个看到演讲的人,提供了一个答案。
       
       
        Hints:
        Emma
        LAX
        Alaska
        Fiji
        Alex
       
       
        听写以音频为准
http://t1.g.hjfile.cn/listen/201309/201309200856436318746.mp3Now Emma's story made that sound easy, but that's what I love about working with twentysomethings. They are so easy to help. Twentysomethings are like airplanes just leaving LAX, bound for some where west. Right after takeoff, a slight change in course is the difference between landing in Alaska or Fiji. Likewise, at 21 or 25 or even 29, one good conversation, one good break, one good TED Talk, can have an enormous effect across years and even generations to come. So here's an idea worth spreading t every twentysomething you know. It's as simple as what I learned to say to Alex. It's what I now have the privilege of saying to twentysomethings like Emma every single day: 30 is not the new 20, so claim your adulthood, get some identity capital, use your weak ties, pick your family. Don't be defined by what you didn't know or didn't do. You're deciding your life right now.艾玛的故事听起来很简单,但这是我喜欢和20多岁的人一起工作的原因。帮助他们很容易,20多岁的人们就像是一架刚从洛杉矶国际机场起飞的航班,向西飞去,刚起飞时,航道上一个小的改变导致目的地不同,有如阿拉斯加和斐济之间的差别。同样的,在21岁或25岁甚至29岁时,一次好的谈话,一个好的假期,一个好的TED演讲,会在今后的岁月甚至对后几代人产生不可估量的影响。这是值得告诉每一个你所认识的20多岁的人的事,就像我学会告诉亚历克斯一样简单。这也是我现在每天都会对像艾玛一样20多岁的人说的话:30岁不是一个新的20岁,所以认清你的成年期,获得一些身份资本,利用你并不那么直接的人际关系,选择你的家人。不要被你不知道的或是没有做过的事所限制。生活的决定权在你手上。
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