【Talk about English】 我们究竟是什么 (Episode5-3/5)
来自不同文化的人不仅使用不同的语言，而且他们运用非语言沟通的方式也不同。当人们用与我们不同的非语言方式进行交流时，往往会出现一些问题。跟本期主播Marc Beeby一起来看看交流的特点吧。Hints:
Emma Kambangula
Namibia
Kyung-ja Yoo
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http://t1.g.hjfile.cn/listen/201303/201303020903321099834.mp3Imagine you're meeting someone in your culture, what do you do. Do you shake hands, or kiss, or bow, or perhaps even rub your noses together? Something as simple as a greeting can require quite different forms of nonverbal communication in different societies. The form of the greeting will depend on how you think about social distance, by which I mean levels of formality, rank, seniority and so on, and, as we'll hear later, your attitude to physical distance, or space. Here are two very different ways of meeting people, described by Emma Kambangula from Namibia and, first, Kyung-ja Yoo from Japan
We don't shake hands when we first introduce somebody, we just bow each other politely. We are not supposed to touch the people, even parents and children. It's embarrassing, touching somebody. We don't do that.
Touching is very important, like shaking hands, hugging. We have one thing that we say in Namibia: when you are sad the whole community is sad with you; when you're happy the community share your happiness with you, and this is all through communication too. And one important thing in communication is whenever you are greeting someone on the street you have to stand and look at the person, greet them with a smile, and our greetings take up to five minutes. And it have to be a genuine smile, so, that's part of the communication also and in most cases shaking hands, it's very important.想象一下当你遇到有共同文化背景的人时，你会做些什么。你会握手或亲吻或打个招呼或甚至碰一下鼻子？打招呼的时候你要考虑到等级主次备份等等，就像我们要听到的那样，你对于身体距离飞态度或是个人空间。这里有两个完全不同的迂回人员，称呼为艾玛来自纳米比亚，首先由--来自日本发言
我们通常不握手当我们第一次介绍时，我们只是礼貌的打一下招呼。我们不建议触碰人体，即使是父母与孩子。这样太难堪了。我们不会这样做。、
接触是非常重要的，像握手，拥抱。我们在纳米比亚有一个说法叫：当你悲伤的时候整个社会群体都和你一起悲伤，当你高兴、快乐的时候整个群体都和你一起高兴。当你在大街上和看到的人打招呼的时候，你必须站着并且面带笑容的看着这个人，我们打招呼要占去5分钟的时间，你的笑容必须要体现出尊敬，在社交中很重要的一个环节是握手，这是非常非常重要的。
——译文来自: wl2052
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