【晨读美文四级篇】做一个乐观者（2/3）
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Nonehttp://t1.g.hjfile.cn/listen/201211/201211180812136512893.MP3When things go wrong the pessimist tends to blame himself." I'm not good at this." " I always fail." he would say. But the optimist looks for loopholes. Negative or positive, it was a self-fulfilling prophecy. If people feel hopeless they don't bother to acquire the skills they need to succeed.
A sense of control is the litmus test for success. The optimist feels in control of his own life. If things are going badly, he acts quickly, looking for solutions, forming a new plan of action, and reaching out for advice. The pessimist feels like fate's plaything and moves slowly. He doesn't seek advice, since he assumes nothing can be done.当出了问题后,悲观主义者往往自我责备. 他会说:"我不擅长做这种事.""我总是失败." 但是乐观主义者则寻找疏漏之处. 不管是消极还是积极的想法,都是一种本身会得以实现的预言. 如果人们感觉毫无希望,那么他们就不会花费力气去获得成功所需要的技能。
有无掌控感是成功的试金石.乐观主义者感觉到能够掌控自己的命运. 如果事出不利,他立即作出反应,寻求解决办法,制定新的行动计划,而且主动去请教他人. 悲观主义者则感觉到自己只能任凭命运摆布, 行动起来拖拖拉拉. 既然认为无计可施,他便不去寻求他人的意见.
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