【词汇大师】情人节,情人不在身边,怎么互诉衷肠呢?(2/2)
情人节了,如果你不能跟你的情人在一起,你会怎么联系TA?电话?E-mail?还是手写板情书?Dear……
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主持人对话①"Going back to the use of language, you talked about salutations, what about signoffs?"
hints
'see ya'
'bye-bye'
tic-tac-toe
戳节目订阅,掌握节目最新动态。http://t1.g.hjfile.cn/listen/201203/201203280900299665424.mp3"Well, that was actually the reason that I wrote the book was because when I was doing my initial research, I realized that so many people were so overwhelmed with this technology, and they had so much of it at their fingertips, but they weren't quite sure how to navigate it. But they, more importantly, weren't sure if it was helping their relationship or hurting it. A lot of girls would spend days and days and days text messaging with a guy before he would even ask her out, and is that a good thing or a bad thing?
"I think what it comes down to is, if you're really anxious to be asked out on a date, then it can be seen as a hindrance. If you're really excited to get to know someone slowly and gradually, and you want them to get to know you maybe from the inside out, then it can actually be a beneficial medium."
"That was actually really funny. I actually had a really great subject who said he uses it as his 'canary in the coal mine.' But he had said that he reads the way that a woman signs off as a huge indicator of how that woman feels about him.
"So if she signs off 'see ya' or 'bye-bye' or something really cute or casual, then he thinks 'OK, we're on casual footing.' If she just says 'talk later,' then he's like 'oh gosh, this isn't great -- she means later. How much later is later?'
"But one thing I kept hearing over and over again was the XOX and, you know, those little tic-tac-toe marks that women use all the time to sign off with each other. Technically I guess it means kiss, kiss..."
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